“No time to exercise”?

Perhaps the biggest excuse for not exercising is time. Not only is this the biggest excuse, it is also the worst. Let’s be honest.  We all waste a lot of time in our day.

I have a hour commute (each way) to work. That is two hours during which I can’t do much other than complain about people driving in the passing lane and listening to the news or podcasts. (I think audio books would put me to sleep.) Still, I get in one to two workout sessions most days. I don’t totally neglect my wife (we do our best to keep up with our “15-minute check-in”) or my kids. Moreover, I waste my fair share of time on Facebook, checking e-mail, and playing games on my phone. Truthfully, I should be making more time to exercise.

Now, some may have busier schedules, and, honestly, my teaching schedule allows me a bit more flexibility than the traditional 9-to-5er. Nevertheless, there is time to exercise, and I still get around 7 hours of sleep most nights.
I do it by prioritizing my exercise time and using the time wisely. Sure, I could get better results training differently and training more (and if I focused on diet more), but I strive to be balanced.

It does not take much time to exercise effectively. To maintain cardiorespiratory fitness (and maybe even see some improvement), it doesn’t take much more than 20 minutes a few days a week. You have to be willing and able to ramp up the intensity, but it can be done. Unless one is training for bodybuilding or physique competition, 3 to 4 hours a week will be sufficient to see results. It is all about time management.

Begin with a time allotment. How many days a week? For how long? Commit to a time schedule.

For me, I have actually cut back on my time lifting weights. As a high-frequency lifter, I am taking a leap of faith and trying Jim Wendler’s 5-3-1 workout (https://jimwendler.com/blogs/jimwendler-com/101065094-5-3-1-for-a-beginner) four days a week. If I am on task, I am done in around 45 minutes. There are other similar programs, but I like experimenting for teaching purposes. It is built around four core lifts (squat, bench, deadlift, and press) and I add back to round out my “basic 5”. My schedule is as follows: Sunday—squats (Romanian deadlifts); Tuesday—bench and back; Thursday—deadlifts (front squats); and Friday—press and back. The main lifts are according to the 5-3-1 scheme. The exercises in parentheses are accessory moves done for 5 sets of 10. I don’t do other accessory work, e.g., arms and abdominals, as these are done on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday afternoons as part of my high-intensity interval resistance training (HIIRT; refer to my “HIIRT 100s Challenge, November 16, 2018). Cardio sessions are Monday and Wednesday mornings (moderate intensity steady state, MISS) and Tuesday and Thursday afternoons (HIIT) for 30 minutes each. This gives me my best balance of muscle strength, muscle endurance, cardiorespiratory endurance, and body composition work. The time commitment is minimal and flexible.

This fits my schedule. Everyone’s goals are different, and our time commitments are variable, as well. I have to get up before 5 every day and try to be in bed by 9-10 o’clock, but it works. If time runs short, I adjust. If I have to cut exercise short, I look at first being more time efficient—less wasted time. This can be accomplished with shorter rest times between sets and/or “super setting” exercises. If anything is cut it is what is least necessary toward my goals and such as to still benefit from the exercise I can do.

Before making time excuses, consider what you are presently doing and trim the fat—i.e., cut the unnecessary. If you have to watch TV, for example, watch it while you do your cardio. The time is there, if you would just commit to it.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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Greater for others.

“There is nothing wrong with dedication and goals, but if you focus on yourself, all the lights fade away and you become a fleeting moment in life.”—Pete Maravich

Goals and dedication are deeply Spiritual. That is, they are intended to make today’s best better—for others. If we are focused on success for our own benefit, we miss the opportunity to be impactive. Thus, we become like fading lights and a fleeting moment.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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Self-motivation.

I teach a course called “Exercise Motivation and Adherence”. Truth be told, though, I am a lousy motivator—at least I perceive myself (at times) to be. Sometimes, the toughest person to motivate is oneself. I understand the principles of motivation—especially as they apply to exercise adherence. Personally, exercise motivation is easy. My difficulty lies in the remaining dimensions of “well-centered fitness”—Spiritual, Intellectual, Emotional, and Social.

Intellectually, as a university professor, I don’t have much choice, but to push myself Intellectually. I do enjoy learning, after all. Still it can be a challenge to read regularly and to engage my mind in things other than my “work”.

Spiritually, as much as I desire to practice “I am third” (i.e., “my God is first, my family and friends are second, and I am third”), I can’t be truly selfless, because I expect others to be selfless. This always cycles me back to self-centeredness. Daily, I must reset my course.

Socially, it is a struggle to not push people away and become isolated out of feelings of isolation. Sometimes it takes effort to feign interest in others (going back to the Spiritual struggle). It is often easy to ignore the strong relationships in one’s life for the weaknesses in the relationships that remain. Honestly, it is my laziness and unwillingness to muster the motivation that causes my Social struggles.

The Emotional dimension is the keystone of “well-centered fitness”. It is easy to say “fake it ‘til you make it”, but it hard to put words into action. Thus, my best efforts at self-motivation require a concerted effort toward grattitude—i.e., and attitude of gratitude.

It is essential that I view the day-to-day struggles to become well-centered as “opportunities”. This, however, is rarely an easy task.

It is necessary to surround oneself with Purpose—the “why” for the circumstance at hand—and to understand that the why is not always for the purpose of self (hence, “Purpose”—the greater universal purpose for any given circumstance).

One reason I always show the movie, What About Bob?, in my Exercise Motivation and Adherence course is because it emphasizes the necessity of “baby steps” in our lives. We are rarely going to make leaps of progress in our lives. Most often, we are baby stepping from moment to moment and the progress is imperceptible. On occasion (quite often), we will step backward. The key is to keep the overall movement going forward.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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The power of the present.

“The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power.”–Unknown

Facebook reminded me of a quote I shared four years ago—just months after I closed a business and ended a lifelong dream:

“’Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.’–Shannon L. Alder

My greatest fear in life is not what lies ahead but rather how each step affects others. At times it motivates; at times it paralyzes.”

I am reminded of the struggle we face to not look back and think about all the things we failed to do or the things at which we failed. Failure and experience are life’s best teachers, but we don’t have to dwell on them. The opportunity lies in what we do today. We should reflect on the lesson and make sincere effort to be better today.

At the time I shared the above sentiment, I am sure that I was battling with regrets. I felt that I had let down the athletes we were training, the parents who had invested time and money with us, the trainers I have to let go, and, moreover, my wife, who had to deal with the financial blow it struck to our retirement savings. In all, though, I had to consider the blessing the experience had been. I learned a lot. I made friendships that remain today. I (we) impacted the lives of a number young athletes who have benefited from the training they received. We recovered financially. Relationally, it made my wife and me stronger. I still carry the experience into my classroom, as I continue to educate exercise science students. I could dwell on the regrets, but it would do me and others no good. Instead, I consider how it has impacted the present.

I have no regrets for the past. There is nothing I would change of my 55 years—despite the abundance of mistakes and missed opportunities. Why? Because every experience has brought me to where I am right now. I would not change a thing. (And, of course, I couldn’t even if I wanted.) Instead, I can shape my future by the decisions I make and the actions I take right now.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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When our best isn’t enough.

I am a proud graduate of West Virginia University (B.S. and M.S.), and love my Mountaineers. Friday WVU was defeated by Oklahoma 59-56 (this is football, not basketball). The offenses both put up very impressive numbers. Despite the scores, neither defense played as poorly as it might seem. It was an exciting game, but WVU came up short. Sometimes, our best just isn’t enough.

We have two options when we come up short: quit or learn. In my opinion, there is only one option—learn. We can only strive to get better.

It is hard to think about how one can get better when they score 56 points in a football game, but of, course, there were countless times when the 11 Mountaineers on the field could have done “better”—or the coaches. Likewise, the Sooners, too, could have done better. After all, the Sooner defense gave up 56 points! But, when two teams go head-to-head, one will always come out on top.

Our personal best is never good enough. That sounds discouraging, but it should not be. There is always room for improvement. Some days more so than others. Over all, as we grow, our improvement will seem increasingly slight—as we approach the asymptote of our “potential”—and it will always seem that someone is bettering us. As it should. We should always work as though we are #2—even when we are on top.

Coach Dana Holgorsen will undoubtedly go to the films and analyze his players’ performances. He will also, undoubtedly congratulate the players on their performances this season. They won’t play for the Big XII Championship this year, but they will go to a bowl game. Seniors will graduate. Some will be drafted into the NFL. Others will take their degrees and do great things. Underclassmen will look to next season. None will dwell on this loss. For if they do, they will be stuck there. Instead, they will look at what they did well, work to improve on what they didn’t do so well, and they will seek to be better at the next opportunity.

This is what champions do—even champions who are not Champions. This is one of the great lessons of sport. Success is not necessarily in winning every time.  Success is in doing one’s best today and doing better tomorrow—no matter the outcome.

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For how long should I exercise?

Okay, assuming you sleep for eight hours a night…. You are probably working a job or going to school…. You gotta take time to eat…. How much time is left? That is how long you should be exercising. Well, not really, but it is not far off. One should be as active as possible during the day, and some of that activity should include a well-designed, effective exercise program. For most of us, this is probably not as much time as we would like to dedicate to exercise.

So, our time to exercise is limited? It is important then that we use this time wisely. There is no time to be wasted in your exercise session. There is not time to be spent on anything that is not carefully matched to one’s goals. Sure that exercise the guy across the gym is doing looks cool, but it is not about looking cool.  It is about results!

What are you trying to accomplish with exercise? What are your goals? Remember, the principle of specific—i.e., the body system make specific adaptations to imposed demands. Any energy spent in training that does not go toward accomplishing one’s goals is wasted effort. This does not mean that one should entirely neglect any component of physical fitness (e.g., health-related: cardiorespiratory endurance, muscle endurance, muscle strength, flexibility, and body composition; and motor skill-related: speed, power, agility, balance, coordination, and reaction time). It just means that one’s program should be appropriately balanced. The great amount of time should be spent in activities that most affect the outcome. For example, if the goal is to run a marathon, the majority of time should be spent running, but this does not diminish the need for strength and flexibility training. If the goal is to increase muscle mass (and, thus, improve body composition) lifting weights will take priority, and cardio should be limited to the minimal effective volume for improving oxygen consumption (or at least a maintenance volume). Time is limited, so one must prioritize the training (opportunity costs!) but not at such a cost to other performance parameters. Consider the principle of reversibility: the effects of training are lost should the training stimulus be removed (in other words, “use it or lose it”). As long as the training reaches the maintenance volume, however, gains or performance will not be lost. So, is one already has a sufficient level of flexibility, why spend an excessive amount of time stretching (for example)? If the goal is muscle mass, lift weights (maintaining a full range of motion) and keep cardio limited to short HIIT sessions.

Train smart and don’t waste effort. Do what is most productive and cut the unnecessary exercise.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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Success.

“The greatest thing a man can do in this world is to make the most possible out of the stuff that has been given him. This is success, and there is no other.”—Orison Swett Marden

No one is (extra)ordinary by complaining about one’s lack of circumstance. Each is gifted for greatness in his or her way.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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Create space for the soul to speak.

“Live in the very soul of expectation of better things, in the conviction that something large, grand, and beautiful will await you if your efforts are intelligent, if your mind is kept in a creative condition and you struggle upward to your goal.”—Orison Swett Marden

Take time to pause and listen to your soul speak. Act on what is speaks to you.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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