It is an Olympic year (albeit a year late). With it comes a time for spectators to critique our most elite athletes. This Olympics has been no different. Whether it is judging Simone Biles’ decision to withdraw from competition or athletes’ not placing as high as spectators would prefer. This morning, I saw a post on social media asking whether an athlete “win’s the silver medal” or “loses the gold.” Honestly, I don’t know what is worse: the people who believe everyone should get a trophy or those who would call the second best in the world a “loser.” Let’s face it, we can all be gold medalist in our minds sitting on the couch. Few of us have the talent, the work ethic, and the willingness to compete—let alone medal—at the Olympic Games.
Nearly every athlete ends their season and career with a loss. The championship and the gold medal goes to only one team or athlete. Does that diminish the performance of the silver medalist or the bronze medalist—or the competitor who came in last place? Hell no, in my opinion.
The only responsibility of the athlete is to compete at their very best (and there is no dishonor in withdrawing when they recognize that they can’t give their best). The outcome will be what it will be. No one has a right to judge the athlete for the outcome but the athlete him/herself.
It is much the same in life. We can’t all be the best (and often the best doesn’t win). We can only do our best in the current circumstances.
Yes, one can win second place. One does win second place (as well as third place and so on). It is an accomplishment for an athlete to complete at any level—especially the international level. That in itself should be celebrated. It is not all about where an athlete stands on the podium. It is all about the accomplishment and sacrifice it took to get there.
I for one am proud of our athletes—of any athlete who makes the effort to show up, to train, and to risk “failure” for the sake of competition. It is a shame when we put “spectator” in front of “sport.” A soon as we do, we allow those who can’t the “authority” to judge those who do.
Thank you Olympians for your years of hard work and dedication. Gold, silver, bronze, or also-competed; you are an inspiration to future competitors.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
Carpe momento!
