“Not worrying about trying to fit in a box. Going to focus on improving me and nothing else.”—Sandi
I write to inspire myself—with the hope that it might inspire others, as well. Thus, I am always seeking inspiration (especially as I continue my efforts to post something on a daily basis). Thankfully, I came across the statement above on a friend’s social media post. Sandi has come a long and admirable way on her journey as a bodybuilder. Few recognize the effort that goes into physique training—the hours in the gym and the sacrifice when it comes to food—or the frequent setbacks. Sandi has, twice this summer, fallen just one place shy of earning her pro card. In photographs, the difference between 1st and 2nd place is only in the eyes of the judges. Sandi’s response? The quote above. She is going to keep working hard and focus on improving herself—not trying to be anyone else. This is what I call “grattitude”.
We all have the tendency to compare ourselves—our success (or perceived lack of success)—to that of others. To be like someone else—or even to be “better” than someone else—should never be our goal. We are not on this earth to be like anyone else—or to be anyone else. We are here to be ourselves—the best “self” we can be.
While, I believe, competition is healthy, we should not be competing simply to be the best. Rather we must compete to be the best each of us can be. When we fall short of first place, we learn we have room for improvement—and, certainly, even those who bring home the gold medal or championship trophy can improve. I believe true champions are not focused on being the best. Rather they are focused on being their best.
Every day is an opportunity.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
Carpe momento!