“Depression begins with disappointment. When disappointment festers in our soul, it leads to discouragement.”—Joyce Meyer
Disappointment often leads to discouragement and, sometimes, depression, but it can also lead to drive—to the overwhelming desire to get out of the hole one is in and succeed. The challenge is winning the battle with discouragement and depression. Disappointment presents an opportunity for growth—perhaps for dramatic change. It is never easy, however, especially when disappointment persists, and success is perceived as a mirage or a façade. (Whoever says “fake it till you make it” is full of something.)
“Disenchantment, whether it is a minor disappointment or a major shock, is the signal that things are moving into transition in our lives.”—William Throsby Bridges
Perhaps William Throsby Bridges is correct. Disenchantment is the likely crossroad where drive and depression meet. Or, more likely, it is the difficult path leading from disappointment and discouragement to the fork in the road. The difference between drive and depression is hope and the confidence that transition is possible.
Our history and experience may tell us that transition is not possible, and that the road is only one of continued disappointment and discouragement. Depression begins with a belief that this is the only road. It progresses as all optimism is lost. Drive, however, requires only that we hold on to the last hint of optimism and keep stepping forward until we find the alternative path.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
Carpe momento!