In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household. I was moved by the movie in so many ways. I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children. To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.
I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.
5. I WILL confront evil, pursue justice, and love mercy.
How much really has to be said here? I expect this of everyone. Our society, however, is quick to take video of evil and injustice and post it to social media, but we are slow to intervene. We protest what we perceive as evil and injustice, but we do nothing to show mercy and seek to win the opposition to our side through dialog. I will confront evil when I see it. I speak my mind—often to the discontent of others—but, more importantly, I must act. These I do not only for my wife and children, but for all.
6. I WILL pray for others and treat them with kindness, respect, and compassion.
It would be dishonest to say I do this well. I pray, but, too often, only in private. I try to treat others with kindness, respect, and compassion, but not everyone. I struggle every day to do this with marginal success, let alone well. Nevertheless, I am committed to this—for my wife, my children, and all who are my neighbor.