Statistically, we are all “average” when we consider the multitude of measurable traits. We are either above or below the median on any given trait. For most, we can’t significantly affect where we fall on the bell curve; for these, it doesn’t matter a hill of beans whether we are above or below—height, weight, age, etc. But, where we can have an affect, do we choose to settle for average or do we choose to be extraordinary?
There is something at which we can be the best. We’ll never know, though, if we settle for the median.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow. This mantra calls for constant improvement.
You and I are unique. Even if we have a sibling with identical genes, we develop based upon a unique set of experiences (spiritually, physically, intellectually, emotionally, and socially). Think about that. There is no one like you! Even if science were to perfect genetic cloning, there could be no replication of you. The genes might be the same, but every event from the moment of conception shapes you—your mother’s diet, emotional state, stresses, etc. all affect fetal development. From the moment you are born, experiences begin to shape you. Your identical twin or clone will not have the same scars (physical or emotional). Your body formed by physical experiences (diet, exercise, etc.). Physiologically (and philosophically), I find this totally fascinating! There is NO ONE like you or me!
We are unique. So, why do we ever consider ourselves inferior to another?? Sure, everyone is better at something, but, certainly, there is more than one thing at which we are above the median. And, there is more than one thing at which we can excel, if we put in the effort.
Find a passion and grow in that area. Find just one area of your life in which you want to be the best and pursue it daily.
No one becomes the best over night. Everything takes effort and commitment.
Be your best today…. Never settle for less.
Be better tomorrow. Baby steps. Do the things today that will prompt improvement. Work hard at the things about which you are passionate. And, likewise, approach that in which you are below average and seek daily improvement.
Lasting change is incremental. Habits form over time. We are adaptable beings—capable of change. You, alone, shape who you become.
Above all things, grow as a person and add value to the lives in which you come in contact. Be the best you. Don’t settle for average.
Be extraordinary. Carpe friggin’ diem!
“Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.” –Vince Lombardi